PDA Reframing

Rewrites demands into genuine choices for PDA-profile demand avoidance

Tested · Works

Test report

Verdict
Tested · Works
Score
8.8/10
Tested
Jul 30, 2026
Environment
Claude Code 2.x (agent harness)
Upstream re-checked
Jul 30, 2026 · 0c80afe

This skill is no longer available upstream. Our re-check on Aug 10, 2026 couldn't find it any more (repo unreachable/deleted). The test below is what we measured on Jul 30, 2026 and we're leaving it up as a record — but there is nothing left to install, so we've removed the command.

Reframed the same five demands twice — once cold, once following the skill — and scored both mechanically: the cold version still carried 10 pieces of demand language and 5 guilt constructs with zero autonomy or choice markers, while the skill version had none of either and 8 autonomy acknowledgments, 6 genuine-choice constructs and 3 honestly named constraints. The clearest difference was the non-negotiable one, a 5am airport run: the cold rewrite just softened the tone and slipped back into "I really need you to be ready on time", whereas the skill's Boundaries rule produced a stated hard limit plus real choice about everything around it. The cost is length, roughly three times the words. No scripts, no network, no dependencies — 289 lines of guidance that install as a single folder and work anywhere Claude reads skills.

Scored on four weighted criteria — install, triggering, output vs. baseline, docs. How scoring works

  • Installs cleanly 5/5
  • Triggers reliably 5/5
  • Output vs. baseline 8/10
  • Docs & honesty 4/5

What PDA Reframing does

A prose playbook that rewrites instructions and requests so they are less likely to trigger the demand avoidance of someone with a PDA autism profile, using seven named strategies (choice architecture, collaborative problem-solving, curiosity, indirect framing, partnership, time flexibility, autonomy acknowledgment) plus a five-step procedure. Triggers when you mention PDA, demand avoidance, or ask how to phrase a task for a child, partner or colleague without it landing as an order. Also works on your own internal 'I should' self-talk.

How to install PDA Reframing

Nothing to install: the source repository no longer has this skill. If the author brings it back, our daily re-check will pick it up and the command will reappear here.

Commands — how to trigger PDA Reframing

  • /pda-reframing Rewrites demands into genuine choices for PDA-profile demand avoidance

It also activates on plain-language prompts like these:

  • Reframe "clean your room" for my PDA kid so it doesn't feel like an order
  • I have demand avoidance and "I should call the dentist" has paralyzed me
  • Help me ask my autistic coworker to hit a deadline without it feeling like a demand

Frequently asked questions

Is the PDA Reframing skill free?
Yes. The skill itself is free from emory/ASD-AuDHD-PAI-Skills. SkillProof publishes the install command and an independent test verdict at no cost.
Does PDA Reframing work with Claude Code?
We tested it with Claude Code 2.x (agent harness) on Jul 30, 2026. Verdict: Tested · Works. Reframed the same five demands twice — once cold, once following the skill — and scored both mechanically: the cold version still carried 10 pieces of demand language and 5 guilt constructs with zero autonomy or choice markers, while the skill version had none of either and 8 autonomy acknowledgments, 6 genuine-choice constructs and 3 honestly named constraints. The clearest difference was the non-negotiable one, a 5am airport run: the cold rewrite just softened the tone and slipped back into "I really need you to be ready on time", whereas the skill's Boundaries rule produced a stated hard limit plus real choice about everything around it. The cost is length, roughly three times the words. No scripts, no network, no dependencies — 289 lines of guidance that install as a single folder and work anywhere Claude reads skills.
What is the PDA Reframing SkillProof Score?
8.8/10 — installs cleanly 5/5, triggers reliably 5/5, output vs. baseline 8/10, docs & honesty 4/5.
How do I install PDA Reframing?
Copy the install command from this page, run it in your terminal, and restart Claude Code. Skills live in ~/.claude/skills/ (global) or .claude/skills/ inside a project.
Can I use PDA Reframing with Cursor, Copilot, Gemini CLI, Codex or other AI tools?
The SKILL.md format is native to Claude (Claude Code, Desktop, claude.ai). The instructions inside adapt to other assistants: Cursor rules, GitHub Copilot instructions, Windsurf rules, Custom GPTs, AGENTS.md for OpenAI Codex, and GEMINI.md for Google Gemini CLI — our conversion guides cover each, and the free converter on the tools page does the wrapping for you.